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Turn down the heat before everything burns
This is the third Above Our Pay Grade, feat. couples therapist Dr. Marina Rosenthal
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
People said I should read Strangers. I saw our book on every page.
Belle Burden’s memoir illustrates what can happen when you stop asking questions of your spouse and yourself.
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
I had $200,000 in student loan debt. He said, "What's yours is mine."
Some thoughts on romantic gestures this Valentine's Day.
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
Prenups, power, and the convos couples avoid
Welcome to Above Our Pay Grade, feat. matrimonial attorney Jackie Combs
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Progress is the point
How to measure our goals when life has other plans.
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
We promise, you’re not fighting about gifts
Our holiday feelings are deeper than a price tag, so let’s get to the bottom of them.
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
Gratitude's the attitude
How to frame your year together around what's gone right.
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Big Birthday Energy
40 lessons about life, love, and money that belong on a bumper sticker, mug, or tote bag
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
Q&A: Don't I need to know more about my husband's business?
A new reader question on The Joint Account.
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Every business you build is a family business
Our thoughts on how to thrive at both.
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Staying regular
Tips for never missing another money meeting with your partner.
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
How does your partner cope when the sky is falling?
And how do you?
 • Heather and Douglas Boneparth
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