Q&A: We argue over holiday tipping every year. How can we make sure we’re being fair to each other, and everyone else?

A new reader question on The Joint Account.

QUESTION:

My partner and I always butt heads over holiday tips and gifts. How can we compromise while making sure we’re being fair to those who support us throughout the year?

ANSWER:

When the holiday lights go up, many of us start thinking, “Just how much do I tip my mail carrier? My kid’s music teacher? The hairstylist who finally got my bouffant just …